{"id":450,"date":"2013-08-10T18:58:47","date_gmt":"2013-08-10T17:58:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/plein-jour.eu\/wordpress\/?p=450"},"modified":"2013-08-10T18:58:47","modified_gmt":"2013-08-10T17:58:47","slug":"faire-face","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/plein-jour.eu\/wordpress\/faire-face\/","title":{"rendered":"Faire face aux situations difficiles, voire bloqu\u00e9es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Notre objectif est ici compos\u00e9 sur un double mouvement\u00a0:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>nous mettre face \u00e0 nos difficult\u00e9s<\/li>\n<li>mais aussi acc\u00e9der \u00e0 la s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 malgr\u00e9 la souffrance<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ce qui suit\u00a0est une simple grille de r\u00e9flexion \u00e0 destination de vous, les compagnes.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1 ) Dans notre vie de compagnes de pr\u00eatres, nous traversons souvent des p\u00e9riodes difficiles,<\/strong> particuli\u00e8rement lorsque l\u2019homme que nous aimons recule devant la perspective de partager sa vie avec nous.<\/p>\n<p>Chacune de nous pourrait \u00e9voquer les arguments du pr\u00eatre pour s\u2019opposer \u00e0 la r\u00e9alisation de cet amour.<br \/>\nPar exemple&nbsp;:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Je me suis engag\u00e9 vis \u00e0 vis de l\u2019Eglise&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Je ne peux pas trahir le Christ&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb<\/li>\n<li>\u00ab\u00a0Que vont dire mes paroissiens&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb<\/li>\n<li>ou encore \u00ab\u00a0Je me suis engag\u00e9 sur le c\u00e9libat, pas sur la chastet\u00e9&#8230;\u00a0\u00bb<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>2 ) Cette souffrance qui se prolonge parfois durant des ann\u00e9es est destructrice.<br \/>\n<\/strong>Nous risquons d\u2019y perdre l\u2019estime de nous-m\u00eames et de glisser dans la d\u00e9prime.<\/p>\n<p>Nous rencontrons diff\u00e9rents cas de figure\u00a0:<\/p>\n<p><strong>A &#8211; La situation est compl\u00e8tement bloqu\u00e9e.<\/strong><br \/>\nVais-je me r\u00e9signer\u00a0? me soumettre \u00e0 cet homme intransigeant\u00a0?<br \/>\nQuelle est la qualit\u00e9 de l\u2019amour qu\u2019il me porte\u00a0?<br \/>\nNe suis-je pour lui qu\u2019un objet sexuel\u00a0?<br \/>\nDans ce cas, ne vaut-il pas mieux rompre cette liaison pour me lib\u00e9rer et construire ailleurs\u00a0?<\/p>\n<p><strong>B &#8211; Vous \u00eates s\u00fbre de l\u2019amour de votre compagnon.<\/strong><br \/>\nMais il ne parvient pas \u00e0 se d\u00e9sengluer du conditionnement qu\u2019il a subi.<br \/>\nPuis-je esp\u00e9rer qu\u2019il se d\u00e9cidera un jour\u00a0?<br \/>\nQuels signes percevoir de son \u00e9volution\u00a0?<br \/>\nDois-je lui dire que je ne passerai pas ma vie \u00e0 l\u2019attendre\u00a0?<\/p>\n<p><strong>C &#8211; Vous d\u00e9cidez malgr\u00e9 tout de vivre cet amour cach\u00e9.<\/strong><br \/>\nSuis-je consciente que je vais \u00eatre compl\u00e8tement d\u00e9pendante de son emploi du temps\u00a0?<br \/>\nPourrai-je pr\u00e9server des plages d\u2019activit\u00e9s ou de loisirs personnels\u00a0?<br \/>\nCette vie cach\u00e9e ne risque-t-elle pas de ne m&rsquo;apporter qu&rsquo;une frustration permanente\u00a0?<br \/>\nEst-il possible d\u2019acc\u00e9der \u00e0 une certaine s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9\u00a0?<br \/>\nApr\u00e8s avoir conduit cette r\u00e9flexion, vous pouvez \u00a0vouloir en parler \u00e0 un \u00e9coutant.<\/p>\n<p>Dominique et Jean<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ce qui suit\u00a0est une simple grille de r\u00e9flexion \u00e0 destination de vous, les compagnes. <\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-plein-jour-pour-quoi"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.8 - 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